I think I’m a member of the 50% of Americans who, according to your election night philosophy-on-the fly rant, “…want stuff.”

Here’s a history lesson for you.  Let’s see if it helps you figure this thing out.

The first slave on my Dad’s side of the family was not African American.  He was a white indentured servant who arrived on a ship that left Liverpool in 1698.

He did very well for himself, indeed, after working off his debt.  We’re proud of that.

Later, someone in his family sired a few children who looked like my daughter.  Or…she’s half Hopi Indian, so they were probably a little bit lighter of skin than our girl. 

But they did very well, too.

The only slaves we know of on my mother’s side of the family bought their freedom, acquired, somehow, some land in Mississippi, and never asked for any kind of assistance, ever, from then on.

They would not be servants.  They did not wash clothes for white people.  They ate, and sold, what they grew.  And they didn’t exactly “prosper,” but they did more than just survive.

No one on either side of my immediate family would’ve dreamt of asking for anything they didn’t earn.   Ever.  Everyone in our family felt that being American meant giving back, not “taking.”

My father was a proud veteran of WWII.  When I visited the little town in Normandy where he’d fed the local children with whatever he could scrape up from leftovers from Army chow…they kissed and hugged me and called out his name with tears in their eyes.

That proud patriot and his wife worked two jobs when necessary, to make sure that I went to the best schools in Chicago and could attend the college of my choice.  I took piano and ballet lessons.  I graduated with honors.  I traveled to Europe.  I even got to see the little town in Buckinghamshire that bears our family name.

I hugged the sign you see as you arrive there.  “Home” at last…

I became a reporter for the Chicago Sun Times—won an award for journalism, later, in Arizona.

I married a Hopi Indian artist, raised our beautiful daughter to be proud of both cultures, and she, too, graduated from college as a member of an honors “sorority.”

And it was in Arizona that I became the first “Independent” our family had ever had.  They had always been Democrats.  I thought it was time that I tried to look at both sides—or all the many sides of every issue.

I was fully prepared, if the Republicans gave me reason, to vote for a Republican this year.

But a couple of things made me nervous.  VERY nervous.

When both of my proud parents got old, the health care system gave us hell.  I mean…hell.  There is no other way to put it.  I won’t divulge details, but I welcomed any help Obamacare might give to others facing the same ordeal.

My parents died before Obamacare.  But if they hadn’t, there are parts of that system that would’ve saved us a great deal of anguish after my father was diagnosed with both Alzheimer’s and colon cancer.

My mother also required a great deal of care as she entered her decline.  The things we had to do to just find care for her, toward the end, broke my heart.  I was glad she was no longer conscious enough to witness this.

She died believing in God and country, staunchly.

I had a few moments of serious doubt in the latter, if not the former.

I watched all of the debates.  As much news on both sides of the issues as possible—even European news, when I could.

I paid attention to races outside of my own state.  There were a few Republicans I might have voted for, but…they didn’t live in Arizona.  And the ones in Arizona scared me sideways, so...I couldn’t vote for them.

In the end, I voted mostly for Democrats, Independents and even a couple of Green Party candidates.

This is why, since you’re apparently having so much trouble figuring this out:

  1. NO one can tell me what I can or cannot do with my “reproductive system.”  At this point, old as I am, the point is moot, but my daughter’s young, and I refuse to allow anyone to legislate hers.
  2. As I said, the current health care system is broken.  And nearly broke me as I tried to deal with it.
  3. When someone calls me and the people I love lazy, and intimate that people of color or of “non-white” cultures, or who are simply poorer than they are somehow less patriotic, resourceful, ethical, honest or…fill in the rest of that as you will, I get very, very angry.   Because of the history I just offered.
  4. Countries that remain quite white, from France to Holland to…well…many places you can name yourselves, offer more “stuff” than America ever dreamt of.  Everybody pays higher taxes, everybody gets the “stuff” that buys.  I don’t hear anyone on the right side of this thing calling them lazy people who just want “stuff.”  Yet.

I’m retired now.  I retired early like my Dad, because I earned it, like my Dad.  I don’t take SSI yet.  Will soon.  Have no qualms about it.

I voted for Obama.  I am not lazy.  I don’t want “stuff.”

I want my daughter to live in a country that doesn’t make her feel “less than” because she comes from two cultures of color, and doesn’t make her wonder how she’s going to take care of me and herself as we get older.

I earned that, too.  Standing on the firm foundation laid by generations of ancestors who paid dearly to remain proud and free, before me.

Does that answer those questions?

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Comment by Joan H on November 8, 2012 at 4:33pm

Amen, Keka. I don't know how people keep listening to this guy.

Comment by Keka on November 8, 2012 at 5:05pm

Thanks for reading my rant.  I just got so mad I couldn't SEE straight.  Please pass it on, if you've a mind to.  This just can't continue...

Comment by marlene Dunham on November 8, 2012 at 5:11pm
Keka this is wonderful! if only they would listen!
Comment by L in the Southeast on November 8, 2012 at 6:55pm
I saw red when I first saw that clip, too. The first time anybody in my family took ANY help from the government -- in 5 generations -- was when I was forced to take unemployment benefits in 2010 in order to pay my bills. Reilly's off-the-cuff characterization of Obama voters is representative of far too many white Americans who have no freakin' idea what they are talking about.
Comment by Keka on November 9, 2012 at 5:32pm

I just watched MSNBC take the Republicans' reaction through the stages of grief.  Let's hope that they'll get to "Acceptance" really soon.  And then, perhaps, real self-reflection.  You cannot demonize half of the country and expect to be elected, or even taken seriously, if you cannot look inward, discuss the issues...and change accordingly.  Probably too much for Rush and Rove to handle, but...it's the truth, right?

Comment by L in the Southeast on November 9, 2012 at 6:33pm

Yep.  That is the truth.  I think they are toast for a long time to come.

Comment by Wendy Orange on November 15, 2012 at 6:46pm

Hi Kika great post. my computer is all hinky so that is as much as I can say now! GREAT to see you here love Wendy

Comment by Patrick Frank on November 18, 2012 at 3:27am

Thank you for this post. You must understand that O'Reilly is consumed by ego, so full of himself that he can't see what others not like him have gone through. And he doesn't care. And he is one of the sociopaths on the far right.

Comment by Keka on November 19, 2012 at 10:28am

Thanks to all of you!  And HEY WENDY!  My computer went bonkers a couple of weeks ago, so I totally "feel" you!

Patrick...he's consumed by ego and still in that "bubble" Bill Maher talks about.  They create and perpetuate this alternative universe based solely on fear and loathing, and somehow cannot see that calling people like me lazy and greedy and all that repels the people they desperately need to understand and attract.

Comment by koshersalaami on December 14, 2012 at 8:03am

Well written, good points, glad you did.

Now realize that Bill O'Reilly is probably the most reasonable of the Republican pundits and realize exactly what the opposition looks like.


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