I figured it out.
Can't do it.
Came back here a few days ago, to honor Trig. Realized while writing the post which disappeared that Joisey was the reason I stopped, and today I realize he is the reason I can't restart.
In the past two days I have gotten Spam friend requests on FB from two people; one with one friend one with three.
Know how often I get Spam friend requests on FB?
Literally never, ever, ever, ever, ever.
So, there it is.