Sometimes people come into your life then disappear. It is always a conundrum why, at least it was. I say this because it no longer is the mystery.
There are people in the world who can swoop into out lives at what seems to be weird times, however this is easily explained. There are people who “right ships”. Yes, it is a nautical reference, yet I got it. Maybe it is because I have looked for people who entered my life and then, seemingly, disappeared. Oh, maybe I will run into them again (some I have) yet it is never the same. I’ve learned the hard way.
No need to track them down…or worse yet confront them. Times change for everyone, as do circumstances in life.
For instance, my dad has Alzheimers and he has swooped in, and swooped out. You see he was a pilot in WWII, so I mean it literally and figuratively.
My son is another one, he swoops in and out of lucidity with seemingly regularity. He goes to jail.
My husband and I have swoops also. All married people do. The difference happens when you are older. Trying to bend to another is not easy when you have spend a lifetime nurturing yourself. It is difficult to not be.
Others die, leaving us to clean up their messes. Life can seem so unfair. This is another time people swoop in and then seemingly disappear. We may need them more than they need us.