No one goes to a hospital to heal. We go there for the same reason we take our cars to the repair shop – because we must. We’re in need of repair.

I found myself unwillingly wandering the dismal halls of the place I’ve come to call HospitalWorld nearly four years ago, when a one-hour colonoscopy turned into a four-day surgical sleepover.


My grandfather had warned me long ago against hospitals. "You don't want to go there, Jerry," he told me. "That's where the sick people are."

Pop died at the age of 94, at home.

His warning came strongly to mind as I checked myself into HospitalWorld. “You were right, Pop. Hospitals are where the sick people are, all right. They're also where the doctor people are.”

I had no choice.

I was 59 years old, and not a very healthy specimen--a good 25 pounds overweight, living the helter-skelter, stress-ridden life of a newspaper reporter. Nevertheless, I harbored a teenager's blind belief in his own immortality. Since I'd shown no symptoms of disease, I fully expected to make it home for dinner.

No sooner had I emerged from sedation than my gastroenterologist leaned over my hospital bed and told me he'd found a "mass" during his inspection.

Oh? Still groggy, I looked over at my wife, asking with my eyes "What's this guy getting at?"

Before she could answer, the doctor spelled it out: dinner this evening would consist of ice chips and a heaping helping of pre-op anxiety.

Came the morning, I was back in recovery, having been relieved of two feet of my colon. Five days later, initially positive prognostic indications were confirmed: I received a rating of 2A. No sign of spread, no need for chemo.

The next few days were a blend of gratitude laced with hunger, the latter induced by a hospital diet that never rose above – and often fell below -- the ice-chip level.

I dreamed only of escaping. Soon, but not soon enough, I got my wish.

I was discharged one lovely summer's day, clutching my suddenly too-large trousers to my waist, intent on healing myself in the best way a starving man knew how: by indulging every dietary whim I'd been denied.

My doctor had told me I had no food restrictions. So upon arriving home, I took a pub-crawl through the pantry and into my past. After the hospital's rubbery Jell-O cubes, it was pure joy to savor the deep-fried, the fat-drenched, the cheese-covered. And if anyone raised an eyebrow, I had a ready answer: "Doctor's orders!"

I hankered most after long-forgotten childhood treats. A glass of cold milk and a graham cracker slathered in summer-warmed butter transported me to a time 50 years gone, when calories didn't count, sunshine didn't cause cancer and sugar was one of the basic food groups.

Without any effort on my part, life seemed to slow down. Ordinary things I'd paid little or no attention to all my life sparkled with meaning. They made sense, seemed newly alive to whatever sense they struck. I walked around the house smiling like an idiot.

One morning, maybe the second day after my release, I was sitting on the back deck of the house. It was July, and a breeze had sprung up and gotten tangled in my hair, giving me a moment's respite from the baking heat. I leaned back in my chair, cast my eyes upward and noticed how the breeze was playing in the leafy treetops. In that moment, the psychological distance between me and my surroundings vanished. I found myself wondering, Can trees feel relief? Or maybe even delight? They certainly feel the breeze. Why not pleasure?

The trees didn't answer, of course. But I wasn't looking for answers. My wonderings, unmoored from the grind of the everyday and habitual, drew me into the depths of a larger picture--one that embraced the natural world but also extended beyond it.

I was a happy prisoner of this new world. The sound of a car passing down the road was as musical as birdsong. The matte finish on a ball-point pen, the glint of the ceiling light on a spoon floating in greasy water in the kitchen sink, the smell of laundry detergent wafting up from the basement--all were part of a newfound, unsuspected symphony.

In this symphony, I was both instrument and player, sound and listener, individual and collective. I felt awake to a world that had always been there, that I’d had glimpses of as a child, but that I hadn’t been able to recapture since then.

I avoided examining or questioning this enthralling condition, for fear I'd see it dissolve under the microscope of mere rationality. I knew that I'd been granted not a religious experience but what formal religion often claims for itself: a sense of spiritual wonderment, a hint of the heavenly made apparent in the earthly.

Some part of me knew that this new way of being was, as psychedelic adventurers and mystics alike have described, an old way--perhaps the original way of being. And that same part of me knew it couldn't last.

I realized I'd been granted standing room, not a permanent seat, at Symphony Hall. Too soon, I'd have to slip back into harness, fettered by duty, responsibility and the need to make a living. I'd have to put on clean clothes, shave, gas up the car and return to the newspaper job I've held for most of two decades.

I resolved to squeeze every last juicy moment from days whose spark had already begun to dim. If surgery had indeed saved my life, this was what life was, and why it was worth saving.

With each passing day, I noticed, heard, felt less and less about the breeze, the trees, even the food. But even as I mourned the passing of those exultant days, I also began to yearn for a return to the ordinary. After all, what was so wrong about shaving my face, getting out of my pajamas, stepping back into ordinary life? My day-to-day groove might actually be a rut, but I longed to get back to the way things had been before I'd been so rudely hospitalized.

As grand as a symphony may be, no one wants to spend their entire life in Symphony Hall. A life needs contrasts. Heard in the concert hall, Beethoven's Ninth can bring me to tears. But only a few bars of it can sound as just as sweet – perhaps sweeter -- if recalled in the midst of ordinary life, while emptying the garbage or tying a shoe.

If it took cancer surgery to allow me to see a life in its more profound and true dimensions, then here's to HospitalWorld. I entered it hoping that it would save my body. I left it happy to be alive. And I never expected that it would enable me to experience the extraordinary.

The day I went back to work was the day that my healing came full circle. If all I'm left with today are memories of that unsuspected symphony and my role in it, that's okay. It was a gift. As with any gift, I'm grateful to have received it.

My experience was no hallucination, nor was it imaginary: it was real. And now, back amid the routines of ordinary life, the challenge is to remember that reality and live accordingly.

This essay was originally published at Pulsemagazine.org, a very professional and welcoming site that publishes "voices from the heart of medicine." I highly recommend it to readers and writers interested in thoughtful and sometimes surprising essays.

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Comment by Jonathan Wolfman on April 11, 2013 at 4:58am

As always, your writing is revelatory.

Comment by Jeanne Sathre on April 11, 2013 at 5:15am

Beautiful piece. I remember similar feelings of both wonderment and calm when I came home from a hospital stay nearly 30 years ago. I don't think I've ever felt quite so at peace and have always thought it was more than an even trade for having to undergo the surgery.

Comment by JMac1949 Today on April 11, 2013 at 8:19am

Most excellent capture of the enhanced appreciation of the details of reality during recovery that's fueled by the realization that you're now in touch with your mortality.  Been there a couple of times over the past few years and while after over fifty years of ambivalence, I'm grateful to finally say that I'm glad to be alive.  On the other hand with $230K in unpaid medical bills I don't recommend hospitalization as a path to enlightenment.  R&L ;-)

Comment by Chicago Guy on April 15, 2013 at 6:53am

This is a spark plug of a piece! Just at the right time too because my coffee was not doing the trick. I love Pop's line, the wandering into food and the trees. Most of all though---the lesson here is delivered in a way that will make me want to remember it.

Doesn't get an better than that!

Comment by Arthur James on April 15, 2013 at 7:34am

`

Gaud. Potent writing. I had a brother-in-law who always said:

`

"It Doesn't get any better than this!"

He said that after several martini's.

He's a  internal auditor for Pain Weber.

He Cooks CEO's books. He's usually drunk.

`

We sure do go thrugh trying Times/Travails.

I left a backslidden Amish and I at a`VAMC.

Four years ago when Barack was the candidate

I was in DC's VA Hospital. I was in a wheelchair.

I almost  died while in intensive care. Beepers?

My Cariac Beeper said I stopped my Breathing.

I respponded this:` I may be in my Meditation.

My First Recall when Staff poked? Annabella!

She is my best female Friend. Grand Daughter.

 

Lewis was in his West Virginan's Mom's Tummy.

You ever Wonder? Our Spirit gets Yanked Back?

I mean If it ain't Time To Go? We still Goof` Round.

I Wonder a Bunch. I am relearning How to Walk.

`

Hang in There.

Never Quit.

I Wonder.

`

For Four Years my muscles atrophied.

I had no Idea. I walk like Iappear drunk.

I heard Yesterday Locals thought I smell.

tease?

I was informed the rumor was I stinky pants.

People thought I walked crooked with poopy.

I was told I am nicknamed ` Stinky Pants.

`

Inspiring read. I sure Wonder why such Pain.

My theory is Strife begins in Wedlock. Marriage.

If we gentlemen make 'it' past a 7- year Itch?

`

We have a lifetime of marital miseries? Some.

O, well. I/You makes the Best of Life as we can.

I am going through the Toddler Stage. I Wobble.

After we 'Croak' we pass beyong the Horizon.

Pain don't end?

It End when we Pass From This Beautiful Earth.

I get Cranky because Doc said I'd be Normal`gin?

She was great. But, I ain't ever gonna be normal `gin.

I seriously have learned from a grief filled, grand life.

Thanks.

I love my PT (Therapist)

I am tempted to give soap.

I get fragrant goat soaps.

Comment by Jeremiah Horrigan on April 16, 2013 at 7:19pm

To everyone who read & responded -- my apologies for being late in getting back to you.

Jon: Thanks man. And yes, you're right about "Blowback." 

Jeanne: You know what I'm talking about. It's stayed with you for 30 years. Here's hoping you won't see the inside of an OR for another 30. 

Veronica: Thanks. The piece is a radically re-written chapter from a book I nearly sold called "Get me Outta Here: A Wise Guy's Guide to Surviving HospitalWorld." The book was pretty snarky, as you can guess from its title. This chapter was a bit of a break, but still needed work, which was helpfully provided by Diane Guernsey, the editor of Pulsemagazine.org. It's a good & interesting site.

Jmac: My God. I hear you.  I don't recommend hospitalization for enlightenment at any price. I hope you find a way out of what sounds like a dismal situation. A guess: writing helps. I hope it helps lots.

Roger:Better a spark plug than a solenoid, I always say. I'll get back to you more detail soon. We've got editing to talk about.

Arthur: I always feel honored to be graced with one of your poems. Hang in there yourself. And yes, wonder. 

Comment by Rodney Roe on January 1, 2014 at 1:28am

I lived next door for a few years to a woman in her 80s.  She was the daughter of a pharmacist who told her when she was a child, "Medicine is for other people.  Medicine can make you sick."  She claimed to have never even taken an aspirin.  She eventually died, as we all will, healthy until she wasn't.

I spent 30 years in Hospital World. It is amazing that the people who work there, faced with illness and death everyday, never face their own mortality and continue with the magical thinking of a teenager.

Comment by Arthur James on January 1, 2014 at 3:51am

`

Rodney Roe

Thanks to You too.

Caretakers.

Land Tenders too.

As I read I recall.

I love 2nd reads.

I go to the woods.

Cyclops cat get fat.

I'll share deer baloney.

A Neighbor gave a hunk.

I'll read more of Jeremiah.

I love to sing about Bullfrogs.

Jeremiah was the weeping prophet. 

I keep a VAMC walker in my PU truck.

Lewis ( 4 ) loves to use on farm gravel lane.

It's lightweight aluminum with two bent wheels.

The VA wanted to issue a new one with a seat, and

a small metal carrier for a 6- pack of cold ales for road.

I didn't accept a nice Physiologist New Walker Present offer.

Cops see the rusty handled bent walker with oak leaves stuck

on it and ask me for a cold beer I carry in my passenger seat.

I'll read Jeremiah's back post. Sometimes I do others too, but

Vow to no comment. It's a way to get to know and discern folk.

Happy new year.

No sign check 1948.

Remember it's 2014.

Soon it will be 2345.

Hope we no in Civil

War. Make Family

Eggnog with Real 

Duck Whites and

Real Nog, Meg

and no bite

Sue or

Who

You

With.

Fruit

Cake?

Feed

Fat

Cat

gosh

Comment by Rodney Roe on January 1, 2014 at 4:58am

Art, I'm visualizing the bent wheeled walker

Perambulated by the strange speech talker.

voice of the universe and gentle soul, sometimes

sliding in the gravel around the pot hole on the

way to the Comfort Inn,

Voice within, voice without

a proper audience. We the

Privileged Few hear.

And ask for the Brewski (beer).

You're a bad influence. 

Not the drink,

You make us think.

(and this is why I pretty much stick to prose)

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