Marriage is tricky. Love is complicated. And not complicated. It’s the uncomplicated kind that I miss the most. The kind of love that made everything else disappear. You remember it, or you might be in it now. I remember falling in love, especially during a cold, Chicago winter. It was the best thing in the world. I remember waking up on a freezing February morning, next to that warm skin, under blankets, safe. It didn’t matter how expensive the blankets were, or where we…Continue
As I slowly unpack from a move, I find the hardest things to unpack are old files. Too much information in too little packing space, so it takes time to separate what I want to keep from what I don't. In my case, particularly because my previous move was from a larger house to a smaller one, a lot of stuff stayed in boxes the entire time I was in the last house, which was ten years. In some cases I find boxes that…Continue
Last week, I went to New Jersey to see my father for his 85th birthday. it was an emotional journey but one I'm glad I made.
The party was on Saturday. I saw my Dad ensconced in an armchair, looking small and frail, which he certainly is these days, but surrounded by people who love him. What was pretty wonderful about it was over half the people there were not actually related to him by blood. His three stepchildren were there with their spouses. Many of their grown children and…Continue
I'm keeping a half assed journal about life here in Bastrop, Texas. This is as good a place as any to start. I've rented a room in an old house built on a one acre lot on what used to be Camp Swift an Army training facility for the 10th Mountain Division and POW Camp for Germans during WWII.…Continue
Life in the Comfort Inn was convenient. Mama’s Kitchen was located in an Exxon Station a hundred feet from my door - hamburgers, fried chicken, breakfast burritos and breakfast muffins, and in the lobby of the motel were Danish pastries and coffee. Except for beer runs I could hole up with MSNBC and HBO all week, which is pretty much what I did. It was Thursday, September 22nd before I found the listing on Craig’s List, a room available in a house a few miles north of Bastrop…Continue
I hit the road around nine in the morning and found my way my way south through Fort Worth to arrive in Bastrop, Texas about two in the afternoon where I checked into the Super 8 Motel on Highway 71 West.Continue
My four-year-old daughter, and younger of the two, recently started her official preschool at the child care center. I was informed by one of the teachers that she would now have homework on Mondays and Tuesdays. Mondays will be writing practice with the alphabet, two pages of it, and Tuesdays, “math practice,” or writing of numbers, two pages of them.
My husband and I are both from the South Side of Chicago, which is not renowned for its production of great thinkers, but we…Continue
hi all. brad pitt & angelina jolie marriage RIP. yes, divorce is like the death of a marriage and its one of lifes intense negative moments. its one of those epic blowups/ trainwrecks that seems at moment likely to provide months of dramatic tabloid fodder. coming close on the heels of the depp-heard derailing.
noticed years ago that internet sites carry a lot of writing on "marriage vs divorce" and started a list/ collection, which has grown to near epic proportions at this pt,…Continue
I made the decision to move back to Texas in late July when the plumbing went out at the house in Cerritos. After a week of screwing around, the Chinese uncles of our housemate Emperor Ming, finally decided to call in a plumber to uncover the leak which was seeping through the slab under my bathroom. After an hour the plumber identified the leak as originating in the slab under the bathroom and then left in an exasperated huff, “Hell they just cashed in on our coupon. They didn’t even ask…Continue
Years ago, a fellow I barely knew, who shot skeet at our club, died in his late 40s suddenly, leaving an 11 year old son. The boy’s uncle became involved in his life and made sure that he got to the club. After a year or two he began to pull trap for the clay target games we played. I’ll…Continue
One of the perks of having an energetic, inquisitive toddler is that it makes you get out more — not to mention head…Continue
Julien is almost two and a half years old, and he’s watched his share of videos and TV shows by now.
It was never our intention to plunk our kid down in front of the TV, computer, or tablet all day. But I have nothing against TV – in fact, growing up, I think I learned a…Continue
Yesterday was my husbands 68th, a reminder to me mine is next month. For the next month I will get to be his "younger woman". He will be my "older man".
Given the social and economic justUS culture I live in, if I have been cursed in life it is that my sense of purpose and meaning in my life, my soul, is so dependent on and directed toward the extent to which my waking moments, my thoughts, my actions are to me cognitively contributive to the well-being of others in a…Continue
Really great first night at the Republican National Convention in Cleveland - but four score & seven years…Continue
Which will I choose: A back brace, or a broom?
I’ve always had a strong sense of self. But like many women, when I became a mom, I lost a lot of it.
It’s not because I give my son unconditional love and as much of my attention as I can (and as seems…Continue
by Tommi Avicolli Mecca
A new day at the Vatican? Could be. At least a little bit of sunshine has been allowed to fall into dusty old windows and halls that have rarely seen much light in the past twenty centuries.
Returning from Armenia in his papal plane, Pope Francis told reporters on the day after millions celebrated LGBT pride in the U.S.: “I believe that the church not only should apologize to the person who is gay whom it has…Continue
by Tommi Avicolli Mecca
While his fellow journalists were stirring up anti-Moslem sentiments with their inflammatory comments about the Orlando mass murderer’s possible connection to ISIS, CNN’s Cooper Anderson, who is openly gay, cut to the chase in his interview with Pam Bondi, Florida Attorney General.
He told her that many LGBT folks in the state saw her as a hypocrite for fighting for years against gay marriage and then trying to portray…Continue