"I agree, Kosh -- nuance. I think it never hurts to say something; it only hurts afterward if you didn't, and it doesn't matter what you say, as long as it's the truth. Talk can often be even more intimate than touch…"
"There’s a ton of revealing going on but how much of that revealing is received depends on a combination of how interested the other party is (as opposed to self-absorbed and perhaps relying more on conventional assumptions rather than actual…"
"Well, I'm not really that girl! Yikes. It was toying with a persona, like drool is no problem. Egad! Of course we sexes are different; it isn't an exception. We learn by what each the other reveals, and yet…"
"you're absolutely correct, except we sexes are very different, from our biology to our need to our biological destinies, very very different. and I celebrate that, because it's that difference that draws us to one another men and…"
"Ya know, there is a cure for any and all of this. Ask! It's reeeaally simple!
I don't feel that I take anything by funnin' with it; in fact, it's meant exactly the opposite, to come with!, include! I…"
"I LOVE desire. I LOVE lust. lust was a highlight of being young and crazy and hormone driven - I did many stupid things, MANY MANY MANY. And I had a ball, literally, figuratively. Life is to be lived, sex is to be had. …"
"Who succumbs whom? There's the rub? Nobody succumbs alone? Equal partners? I dunno!! Lol. This was actually written -and posted- to a date site, in response to all the sincere wishes I read men write…"
I love the illustration.... those tawdry books were always about a womans lust and how succumbing to it inevitably leads to The Great Fall - and lots of shameshameshame.
But we all know the secret truth - that desire is warm and cozy…"
I am a mechanical bird. I fly, dive, and flutter about things, curious, ... yet -- I am but a machine. I am the product of the times I came into. All is mechanical. My clockwork works - exactly. You can see by the meter of my words that something is precise about me. I know not why; I am not the Originator of these things. They only come to me. They tick, or they whirr, or they may, by chance, chime. No matter - I hear, and respond to them. I myself am quite delighted by these Missives that come my way, and my dearest love is the language I came in with, English. It isn't the words themselves; more - it is the very capability of being able to iterate what I have been given to feel.
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